Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

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He doesn’t listen to me…I don’t understand her…Why do we repeat the same fight?

Becoming Us helps you understand your spouse via the lens of faith and the Enneagram.”
Ian Morgan Cron, Enneagram expert and author of The Road Back to You

Do you ever feel baffled by the person sleeping beside you? What if your spouse came with an instruction manual? Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, have helped over 250,000 people discover their unique personality type and apply that knowledge to their relationships.

Becoming Us pulls back the curtain on marriage and weaves the Enneagram through the lense of the Gospel to reveal why you and your spouse behave in different ways. Beth and Jeff will explain how you can:

    • Answer the question, “What is my spouse thinking?”
    • Defuse conflict before it starts, especially the same old arguments
    • Stop assuming each other’s motives and make communication work
    • Affirm each other in meaningful ways that matter
    • Enjoy your spouse all over again, even if you’ve loved each other for years
    Whether you are preparing for marriage or celebrating a 50th anniversary, Becoming Us will revolutionize the way you view yourself and your spouse. Let Beth and Jeff guide you through the Enneagram and transform your marriage into the powerful relationship that God intended.
    Yes, you really will understand your spouse better after you read this book.
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